Avoiding my anxiously attached boyfriend
HumorSamfunnHelseWelcome to "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend"! (AMAABF). A hilariously chaotic podcast that delves into the highs and lows of being an anxiously attached boyfriend of an avoidant attached partner. Join the first visual and audio LGBTQ+ podcast hosted by a mixed heritage couple! Get to know Faris (anxiously attached), who's always seeking reassurance, and Josh (Avoidant attached), who self-sabotaged every relationship, until this one! No matter how hard he tried. This podcast came to fruition from long night chats in the garden with a cuppa, solving all of the world’s issues. Originally, starting as a podcast in our garage, to a beautiful studio in the snazzy city of London. We want this podcast to be a place our beautiful listeners can enjoy, have a laugh and escape yaylity! So, join us and subscribe for new episodes every MONDAY! Peace, Love, and Rubber Gloves.
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In this episode, Alex opens up about his journey growing up as a Greek Cypriot lad from North London, navigating queerness, comedy, drag, and autism. He shares how his alter-ego “Soulla” was inspired by his mum and supported by his grandma, the struggles and acceptance he’s faced within his Cypriot community, and the powerful messages audiences have taken away from his shows. Alex also reflects on harassment and online hate, what it means to come out later in life, and how his family eventual...
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- Gay Culture, Stepbrother Fantasies & Comedy Gold: Jake Jonez (01:01:33)
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- Interracial Relationships, Travel & Redefining Masculinity: Chris & Jacob (00:59:55)
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- Diverse Photography, Mental Health & Ageing in the Community: Fran Gomez De Villaboa (00:47:22)
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- Transfem, being Mixed Race & Acting: Alex Thomas-Smith (00:59:00)
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- Behind the Podcast: Get to know us… (00:31:04)
🎉 1 Year of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend! | Mr & Mr Game, Bedroom Icks & Drag Names We’re celebrating ONE YEAR of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend in pure chaos, hosted by Jamie from Podcast Rooms! 💖 Expect a “Mr & Mr” challenge full of bedroom icks, drag queen alter egos, and the real story of how Faris & Josh went from friends to boyfriends. It’s unfiltered, hilarious, and a little too honest… Subscribe for new LGBTQ+ episodes every Monday! 📱 Foll...
- TikTok Fame, Comedy & Siblings: Chris Hall (00:47:25)
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- Hammams, Crossing Borders & Becoming an Author: Khaled Alesmael (00:51:57)
In this episode, Khaled Alesmael shares his remarkable story of life as a gay Syrian writer, journalist and refugee: from cruising in secret hammams under an oppressive regime to crossing borders on foot and building a new life in Europe. Khaled talks candidly about growing up queer in Syria, the hidden LGBTQ+ community and the power of desire as resistance. He opens up about his journey through Egypt, Turkey and finally Sweden, where his writing became his sanctuary and where he learned to ...
- Open relationships, Reality TV & DJ Supper Club: Joel Mignott (00:55:36)
In this episode, we’re joined by model, DJ, Chef & reality TV trailblazer Joel Mignott. From open relationships and reality TV edits to childhood trauma, healing through therapy, and navigating gay love without a blueprint. This conversation is raw, hilarious and full of depth. Joel opens up about what it means to grow up mixed-race and queer in the UK, how it felt to go through relationship growing pains while being filmed, and why he’s had to rebuild his idea of safety, trust and love f...
- Identity, Seeking Refuge & Changing UK Law: Saif Ahmed (00:53:03)
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- IVF, Meet Cute & Resolving Arguments: Taylor & Jeff (01:06:11)
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- Asexuality, Domestic Trauma & Palestine: Aryam (00:54:45)
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- Flamboyance, Gender Fluidity & Fetishisation: Tyreece (00:58:42)
In this episode, we sit down with performer, creator and unapologetic queer icon Tyreece. From go-go dancing in Heaven at 18 to navigating identity as a gender fluid, mixed-race powerhouse—this conversation is loud, proud and unfiltered. We talk about being “too gay” for straight people, growing up between cultures, coming out journey, and finding the freedom to be yourself! 🎭 The queer nightlife roots that shaped Tyreece—and why they ditched dance school to own their own stage. 💬 The power o...
- Trans, Muslim, Pakistani & PROUD! (00:49:26)
In this episode, we sit down with Britain’s first out Muslim drag queen and transgender activist Asifa Lahore. From transitioning on the NHS to navigating faith, family, identity and the queer scene as a South Asian woman—this conversation is raw, eye-opening and deeply human. We talk about losing male privilege, finding gender euphoria on a motorbike in Pakistan, the power of being visible, and why Asifa has finally stopped chasing love to focus on self-worth. It’s not about fitting in—it’s...
- Made in Chelsea, Sobriety & Coming out: Kabir Khurana (00:48:02)
🌟 Kabir on Made in Chelsea, Queer Identity & Life Beyond the Screen 🎬✨ In this episode, we sit down with Made in Chelsea’s Kabir to talk about everything from reality TV and representation to sobriety, dating as a queer person of colour, and finding purpose after pain. It’s raw, it’s real—and it’s seriously empowering. 🎥 How Kabir Got on Made in Chelsea – The unexpected DM that led to his TV debut and what it’s really like behind the scenes. 🌈 Queer, Brown & On-Screen – Kabir opens...
- Body Hair, IBS Journey & A little Moan... (00:22:52)
🧔🏽♂️ Body Hair, Bias & Bloating – Let’s Talk About It! In this episode, we go there — from body hair politics to bloated tummies and invasive procedures. What does it mean to be hairy and brown in a world that prefers smooth and white? While we also dive into Faris's IBS journey! 👀 Hair & Race – Why being hairy hits different when you’re South Asian, Arab, or Brown — and how it’s all wrapped in coded racism. 🪒 The Pressure to Laser – Why so many people of colour feel pushed to rem...
- Colonialism, Queer Travel & Allyship Fails: Aisha Shaibu Lenoir (00:58:24)
🌍 Aisha on Queer Travel, Colonialism & Building Safe Spaces 🏳️🌈 In this episode, we’re joined by Aisha to unpack identity, activism, and what it really means to move through the world as a Black queer woman. From reclaiming queer history to building inclusive spaces like The Common Press, this conversation is honest, powerful — and full of heart. ✈️ Travelling While Black & Queer – How Aisha navigates the world, challenges stereotypes, and finds queer joy everywhere. 🛡️ Safe Space...
- The Queer Arab Debate, Cultural Imperialism & Boycotting: DEAD SEA SPECIAL! (00:31:41)
🌊 Gay in Jordan: Culture, Boycotts & The Truth About Queer Life in the Middle East 🧳 In this on-location episode, we're coming to you live(ish) from the Dead Sea in Jordan, with coffee, shisha, and some serious conversation. We’re diving deep into what it’s really like to be gay in the Middle East—and why Western perspectives don’t always get it right. 🌍 Is It Safe to Be Queer in Jordan? – We talk life, love, and legality in a country where it’s not illegal to be gay—but acceptance stil...
- HIV, PrEP & Chemsex: Dan Harry (01:01:45)
🌈 Dan Harry on Chemsex, HIV Stigma & The Truth About ‘I Kissed a Boy’ 💋 In this episode, we’re joined by Dan Harry from I Kissed a Boy to dive into some of the biggest (and most taboo) conversations in the LGBTQ+ community. From his BBC documentary PreP, HIV & Me to the realities of chemsex, we break it all down—while still finding time for laughs and a little bit of gossip. 💊 Chemsex: The Intersection of Drugs & Sex – Why is chemsex so common in queer spaces, and what are...
- Atlantis, LGBT In the Middle East & ‘fake’ Dubai (00:26:09)
🌍 Exploring Dubai: Stereotypes, LGBTQ+ Life & The New Middle East Culture 🇦🇪 In this episode, we’re recording straight from Atlantis, Dubai—because why not? We dive into the stereotypes surrounding Dubai, its real culture beyond the glitz, and what it’s really like being LGBTQ+ in the Middle East. 🏙️ Is Dubai Fake? – People love to call Dubai artificial, but is that just a coded way of rejecting modern Arab culture? We discuss whether there’s a deeper bias behind this view. 🏳️🌈 Being ...
- Traitors, Gay Adoption & Cowboy Carter: Miles Asteri (01:05:54)
In this episode, we’re joined by the incredible Miles Asteri for an open and heartfelt conversation about reality TV, navigating identity, and the emotional weight of adoption and fatherhood. 🎭 TRAITORS – Miles opens up about his time on The Traitors, the challenges of playing the game, and the pressure of public perception. 👨👦 Adoption & Fatherhood – From his personal experience with adoption to becoming a parent himself, Miles shares the deeply personal journey of building a family. ...