Extraordinary results for entrepreneurs and business professionals. This show will help you create more relationships, adventure, and meaning in your life. The goal is for you to feel and experience the incredible benefits that come from being a high value leader in demand!
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Don’t Be Left Out in 2025 (you end up heart broken) | What is the Successful 4x4 Man? (00:26:23)
Unlock the secrets of being a high-value man by 2025. What's the importance of creating value, developing scarce resources, building multiple income streams, and the critical role of strength, courage, and authenticity? Learn actionable tips on adaptability, leadership, and effective personal presentation to become a respected and desirable man in the modern world.
00:00 High-Value-Man-2025
00:56 What Makes a Man a Man?
01:15 Going Through 5 Points
01:43 Point 1
02:05 Is Hustle Culture Good For You?
02:27 Does a High Value Man Have to Look Attractive?
03:06 True Power and Controlling Your Own Resources
05:21 What Are Scarce Resources?
05:42 Why Are Some Broke Men Attractive?
06:06 Is Leadership a Scarce Resource?
06:34 Where Do Hard Skills Fit In?
07:07 Does Travel Give You An Advantage?
08:01 Authenticity as a Scarce Resource
08:29 Adaptability as a Scarce Resource
09:04 You Probably Already Have Access to Scarce Resources
09:25 Point Three: How To Be The 4x4 Man in 2025?
10:16 How Does AI Fit Into Your Life?
11:07 What Is The Multi-Purpose High Value Man?
11:32 4x4 Man Point 2: How to Apply to 2025
12:33 4x4 Man Point 3: Kings, Walls, Archers, and Warriors
14:48 4x4 Man Point 4: Strength & Health
15:49 Is Cold Plunge The Same As Lifting Weights?
16:05 4x4 Man Point 5: Leadership
16:40 Leadership vs. Operational Support. Which is for you?
17:36 4x4 Man Point 6: Love Who You Love
18:00 Don't Lie About Your Feelings
19:05 The #1 Tip For Dating Success
19:41 How Do You Present Yourself To The World In 2025?
20:08 A 4x4 Man At His Core
20:51 What is your list?
20:56 How To Get Fatter & Lonelier
21:41 Find Your Style
22:08 How's Your Online Presence?
23:03 Nothing above this matters without this...
24:17 Don't Be A Loser
25:00 Be The Man That Other Men Respect And Women Want To Sleep With
Feel Them Pulling Away? The #1 Subconscious Mistake Men Make (you end up heartbroken) | 4x4 Recall Ep. 12 (00:20:04)
Unlock the secrets of dating and navigate when she starts to pull away. In this episode, we explain the common misconceptions men have about pursuing women and emphasize the importance of creating mystery and not coming on too strong.
We talk about maintaining a balance, keeping the dating process fun and engaging, and how to ensure she ends up chasing you.
Learn practical strategies to stay attractive, build meaningful connections, and enjoy the dating game with confidence.
00:00 What To Do When They Pull Away
02:01 Point One
03:13 Don't Ruin The Mystery
04:00 You DESERVE To Play The Game
04:44 Communicating Your Insecurity
05:00 Women Want To Look Up To You
05:28 Embarrassing Rejection
06:25 You're Probably Trying To Trap Her
08:01 Point Two
08:47 You Attract The Attitude You Put Out
09:19 Your Main Job In Dating
09:38 The Correct Dating Cadence
10:10 Like Netflix Fatigue
10:31 The Best Way To Look Attractive
10:59 The Only Real Counter to "I Need Space..."
11:55 What She Looks Like When She's In Love
12:34 Point Four
12:55 Read The Room
13:42 Matching Energy
14:55 What's It Mean To Lead?
15:51 Women Want To Be The Ones Chasing
16:21 How To Set A Date
16:48 Point Six
17:45 You As A Successful Dater
How To Get Your Instagram Model in Real Life… (Without Liking Their Pics!) | 4x4 Recall Ep. 11 (00:26:15)
What are the detrimental effects of social media thirst traps?
Discover six strategies to shift your mindset, navigate digital distractions, and connect with real women in your community.
Chad shares personal anecdotes, practical advice, and emphasizes the importance of real-life interactions over virtual dopamine hits.
Learn how to regain control of your attention and foster meaningful relationships while escaping the allure of social media.
00:00 Meet-Your-IG-Model-In-Real-Life
00:15 That Nasty Social Media Rot
01:24 Six Key Points
02:07 Life Is Rich
03:56 Point One
04:58 Getting In Real Life
05:53 Find Your Type
07:42 Point Two
09:12 In Real Life With Real Resources
10:40 IRL is the Secret Sauce
11:05 Point Three
11:42 The Social Media Pedestal
13:05 Setup For Disappointment
14:12 Point Four
14:54 We Like Looking At Ourselves
16:15 Point Five
17:30 Real Social Proof
18:36 Meeting Them In Real Life
19:18 Real Life Real Hormones
20:02 Get Shot Down Challenge
21:06 Point Six
21:31 Being Beautiful Doesn't Work For A Man
22:14 Men Taking Selfies
23:02 Avoiding The Friend Zone
23:52 Tactical Bonuses
24:37 Expensive Gym Memberships?
25:10 Don't Be A Wagging Tail
25:58 Stop Chasing
5 Things That Will Change Your Life — From Dating Mastery to Extraordinary Success | 4x4 Recall Ep. 10 (00:26:30)
This episode is a break down of the key results that will not only change your dating life but also lead to extraordinary professional and personal achievements.
Discover how boosting your confidence, especially in dating, can enhance your overall life quality and success.
Chad shares personal anecdotes, from navigating social settings with ease to understanding the importance of living with authenticity and courage.
If you're an entrepreneur or business professional looking to elevate your relationships and self-esteem, this is a video for you!
00:00 5-Extraordinary-Dating-Results
00:25 Intro
01:28 Shout Out To The Wife
01:51 Note On Apathy
02:40 Point One
03:18 Is It All About Looks?
03:48 An Assumption of Sophistication
04:12 Approaching Ten Women
04:56 You Owe Here AND You This Spark
05:46 Where Rejection Fits In
06:47 You Deserve The Woman Of Your Dreams
07:07 Point Two
08:10 What Happens When A Girl Is Teasing You?
09:50 How Does Confidence Impact Your Career?
10:33 Their Missed Opportunity
10:49 Competition With Other Men
12:05 Compounding Success
12:41 Confidence Around Key Leaders
13:48 Point Three
14:07 Extraordinary Results
15:52 Flow State In Your Problem Solving
17:07 The Extraordinary Results Are Not Far Away
17:53 Point Four
18:50 Generating Money Creatively
19:38 Little Things In Business Worth Millions
20:42 Point Five
22:03 IPO Millions
22:52 More Money Than You Could Ever Make
23:16 More Attractive Women Than You Could Ever Date
24:13 What Do You Do When Dating Is So Easy
24:58 Bonuses
25:35 Other Women Want To Be Around You
27:04 You're An Amazing Man
If You Want To Be With Them, Stop This... | 4x4 Recall Ep. 9 (00:22:08)
What are the secret methods and behaviors that make certain men naturally attractive to women?
Discover the IDF framework and understand why neediness, over-investing in communication, and insecurity can drive women away.
Learn how to build genuine confidence, create more dates, and improve your personal and professional life through actionable tips and real-life experiences.
Whether you're seeking success in dating, sales, or business, this episode provides the insights you need to elevate your game.
Other Channels Mentioned:
Bentinho Massaro
Sections:
00:00 Noticed That Swagger?
00:33 Main Problem
00:52 Intro
01:05 IDF Lead In
01:43 Already Always...
02:28 Broad Impact
02:47 The Natural 8 Brother
03:17 Elevator Sigh
05:04 Non-Neediness Be-Cool Atmosphere
05:29 Five Points
05:32 Point One
06:00 Over Investing in Text Messages
07:27 The Emotional Flavor
07:52 What Good Looks Like
08:54 Point Two
09:04 A Date Gone Terribly Wrong
09:51 You're Projecting Insecurity and Self Doubt
10:56 She's Already Showing Interest
11:29 Allow For Quiet
12:15 Find Your Center
13:12 Your Job Is To Polarize
13:30 None Of Your Business
13:48 Point Three
14:52 Neediness Repels Her
15:57 It Doesn't Help Her To Be Straight Forward
16:34 How Most Men React to Rejection
17:33 Point Four - IDF Method
18:43 What Does Rejection Mean?
19:29 Point Five
If You Want To Get Attractive Don't Communicate Like This | 4x4 Recall Ep. 8 (00:21:30)
Learn the common pitfalls men stumble into in dating and communication.
In this episode, we emphasize the importance of maintaining mystery, avoiding neediness, and over-communicating in romantic pursuits.
By sharing insights on women's slower pace of developing attraction compared to men, strategies to communicate without expectations, and the significance of creating space, Chad provides practical advice to help men cultivate more meaningful relationships.
He also highlights the detrimental effects of chasing and over-engagement on social media. Tune in for tactical tips and profound insights to navigate modern dating dynamics.
00:00 Keep-Them-Attracted-To-You
00:56 Intro
01:25 Point One
02:04 Women Want To Feel Secure
03:19 Point Two
03:58 Authenticity vs. Pleasing
04:55 The Creepiness Detector
06:37 The Bar Is Low
07:39 The Work Is In Showing Up Consistently Non-Needy
09:02 Point Three
09:36 You Own Your Personal Image
10:28 Do This If You Want To LOSE Your Woman
11:19 Set The Next Date On The Spot?
12:09 Find The Appropriate Energy
13:00 Emotional Intelligence and Situational Awareness
14:40 Don't Be The Weak Floppy Man
16:57 Tactics
17:26 No Amount of Over Talking Creates Mystery
19:15 The Odds In Your Favor
20:44 What Would Your Busy Self Do?
Can Married Men Listen To Dating Advice? | 4x4 Recall Ep. 7 (00:20:36)
What's the importance of married men consuming dating content?
This episode highlights how it can benefit various aspects of life, from improving charisma and confidence to enhancing leadership skills and frame control.
Chad shares personal anecdotes and key insights on maintaining mystery and charm in marriage, the significance of continual self-improvement, and the impact of a confident demeanor on personal and professional relationships. Tune in for practical advice, thought-provoking perspectives, and actionable takeaways designed to help you become a better, more confident version of yourself.
00:00 Why-Shouldn't-Married-Men-Listen-To-Dating-Advice
00:30 Intro
00:42 Premise
01:14 Background
02:23 Is It Cheating?
02:50 Point One
03:32 You're Never Finished
04:34 Leadership Never Stops
05:06 Leading From The Front
05:49 Humor And Challenge
07:10 You Own The Mystery
07:44 Choose To Lead
09:22 Point Two
10:15 Pouring Yourself Into The World
10:51 How This Affects Your Whole Life
11:53 Who Deserves This Best Version Of You?
12:38 Point Three
14:22 Leadership And Frame Control
15:41 Gambits That Work
16:30 Point Four
18:10 About Not Having To Oversell Yourself
18:52 Bonuses
Books Mentioned:
David Deida's The Way Of The Superior Man
Other Podcasts Mentioned:
Mark Sing's The Unapologetic Man
A Key Formula To Double Your Dating | 4x4 Recall Ep. 6 (00:23:10)
The Ultimate 9-Point Framework for Mastering Dating and Success in Life
In this episode of 4x4 Recall, we delve into a transformative 9-point framework designed to help you master not only your dating life but also your professional world. Through personal anecdotes, including transitioning from military to corporate life, Chad talks about how principles of authenticity, non-neediness, and frame control facilitate success in various aspects of life.
Learn why 'No' is not bad, the importance of standing for something, and how to communicate like a high-value individual. This episode provides actionable insights into navigating relationships, understanding social dynamics, and maintaining intrigue to keep the spark alive.
Don't miss out on these essential tips to elevate your dating game and overall life strategy.
00:00 7-Point-Dating-Framework-Nov-2024
01:25 Point One
03:20 Point Two
04:25 Frame Control
06:38 Uncertainty
07:18 Point Three
08:01 Asking A Girl Out
08:34 Understanding Social Dynamics
09:11 Dating Games vs. Business Games
09:51 Point Four
11:12 How Would You Behave With A Full Schedule?
13:25 Set Definite Times and Places
15:12 The Phone Is For Logistics Only
16:06 Point Five
16:36 Don't Rush
17:26 Let Her Chase You
18:41 Point Six
21:12 Point Seven
21:30 Dating Is Fun
22:26 Point Eight
Here's the 4-Point Framework for the PERFECT FIRST DATE... | 4x4 Recall Ep. 5 (00:23:23)
Everything you thought you knew about the first date is probably wrong! Learn how to make the woman chase you, how to keep her wondering about you all week before the date, and how to have her write letters home to mom after.
Communicate with her perfectly, so that she is working to please YOU. Set your date up so that the logistics work in YOUR favor, and she's falling into YOUR frame.
Is Doing Multiple First Dates in the Same Week Normal? | 4x4 Recall Ep. 4 (00:19:48)
What's too crazy or too busy when it comes to dating? Is the misconception that men can't get enough dates just societal conditioning?
This episode emphasizes the importance of filling up one's calendar with dates to avoid making needy decisions. The host encourages men to engage in activities they enjoy and confidently approach women in those settings, gradually increasing their comfort level and success rate.
The strategy involves aiming for four dates a week and finding a balance between 'sure things' and new prospects, ultimately leading to a steady, confident dating life.
Is it Too LATE to DATE at 40? | 4x4 Recall Ep. 3 (00:21:24)
What do you do if you need to get back out on the dating scene right now? Is everyone too young for you? Is it all a waste?
Successful dating is simpler than most think. If you focus on some key points, you'll find that you have almost NO competition.
Books Mentioned:
Corey Wayne's How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams.
Mexico Hotel Mentioned:
Hacienda Del Secreto, in Playa Del Carmen.
Are all the Sexy & Confident Men Gone? | Secret Dating Results — Renee Garcia, author of Quantum Capitalist. | 4x4 Recall Ep. 2 (00:46:24)
How do you attract unlimited health, wealth, and epic reality into your life?
In this episode, Chad interviews Renee Garcia, author of 'Quantum Capitalist', exploring themes like Reality Transurfing, a modality integrating Eastern philosophy, mysticism, and the Law of Attraction.
Renee discusses her journey with Reality Transurfing and its profound impact on her life and others. They delve into the balance between masculine and feminine energies in relationships, emphasizing the importance of non-attachment and authenticity in dating.
Renee shares personal anecdotes on leaving a long-term relationship, realizing the significance of engaging deeply on intellectual and emotional levels, and highlights how men can attract desirable partners by dropping importance and embodying genuine confidence.
The conversation touches on the human experience, the matrix of societal programming, and practical advice for navigating romantic dynamics.
You don't want to miss it!
Books Mentioned:
Sherry Argov's Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl―A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship.
Renee Garcia's Quantum Capitalist: A Revolution of Self, Wealth, and Reality.
Vadim Zeland's Reality transurfing. Steps I-V.
The 14 Point Framework of Dating in 19 Minutes… | 4x4 Recall Ep. 1 (00:18:12)
What if you could have every dating tip in 14 points?
This episode breaks down a 14-step framework, distilled from almost 20 years of dating experiences, aimed at helping men build confidence and success with women.
The discussion includes personal anecdotes and practical advice, emphasizing the importance of handling rejection, polarizing quickly, setting definite times and dates, and maintaining an abundant mindset.
Books Mentioned:
Corey Wayne's How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams.
Richard Fenton & Andrea Waltz' Go for No! Yes is the Destination, No is How You Get There.
