4x4 Recall: Men's Podcast
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- Don’t Be Left Out in 2025 (you end up heart broken) | What is the Successful 4x4 Man? (00:26:23)
Unlock the secrets of being a high-value man by 2025. What's the importance of creating value, developing scarce resources, building multiple income streams, and the critical role of strength, courage, and authenticity? Learn actionable tips on adaptability, leadership, and effective personal presentation to become a respected and desirable man in the modern world. 00:00 High-Value-Man-2025 00:56 What Makes a Man a Man? 01:15 Going Through 5 Points 01:43 Point 1 02:05 Is Hustle Culture Good For You? 02:27 Does a High Value Man Have to Look Attractive? 03:06 True Power and Controlling Your Own Resources 05:21 What Are Scarce Resources? 05:42 Why Are Some Broke Men Attractive? 06:06 Is Leadership a Scarce Resource? 06:34 Where Do Hard Skills Fit In? 07:07 Does Travel Give You An Advantage? 08:01 Authenticity as a Scarce Resource 08:29 Adaptability as a Scarce Resource 09:04 You Probably Already Have Access to Scarce Resources 09:25 Point Three: How To Be The 4x4 Man in 2025? 10:16 How Does AI Fit Into Your Life? 11:07 What Is The Multi-Purpose High Value Man? 11:32 4x4 Man Point 2: How to Apply to 2025 12:33 4x4 Man Point 3: Kings, Walls, Archers, and Warriors 14:48 4x4 Man Point 4: Strength & Health 15:49 Is Cold Plunge The Same As Lifting Weights? 16:05 4x4 Man Point 5: Leadership 16:40 Leadership vs. Operational Support. Which is for you? 17:36 4x4 Man Point 6: Love Who You Love 18:00 Don't Lie About Your Feelings 19:05 The #1 Tip For Dating Success 19:41 How Do You Present Yourself To The World In 2025? 20:08 A 4x4 Man At His Core 20:51 What is your list? 20:56 How To Get Fatter & Lonelier 21:41 Find Your Style 22:08 How's Your Online Presence? 23:03 Nothing above this matters without this... 24:17 Don't Be A Loser 25:00 Be The Man That Other Men Respect And Women Want To Sleep With
- Feel Them Pulling Away? The #1 Subconscious Mistake Men Make (you end up heartbroken) | 4x4 Recall Ep. 12 (00:20:04)
Unlock the secrets of dating and navigate when she starts to pull away. In this episode, we explain the common misconceptions men have about pursuing women and emphasize the importance of creating mystery and not coming on too strong. We talk about maintaining a balance, keeping the dating process fun and engaging, and how to ensure she ends up chasing you. Learn practical strategies to stay attractive, build meaningful connections, and enjoy the dating game with confidence. 00:00 What To Do When They Pull Away 02:01 Point One 03:13 Don't Ruin The Mystery 04:00 You DESERVE To Play The Game 04:44 Communicating Your Insecurity 05:00 Women Want To Look Up To You 05:28 Embarrassing Rejection 06:25 You're Probably Trying To Trap Her 08:01 Point Two 08:47 You Attract The Attitude You Put Out 09:19 Your Main Job In Dating 09:38 The Correct Dating Cadence 10:10 Like Netflix Fatigue 10:31 The Best Way To Look Attractive 10:59 The Only Real Counter to "I Need Space..." 11:55 What She Looks Like When She's In Love 12:34 Point Four 12:55 Read The Room 13:42 Matching Energy 14:55 What's It Mean To Lead? 15:51 Women Want To Be The Ones Chasing 16:21 How To Set A Date 16:48 Point Six 17:45 You As A Successful Dater
- How To Get Your Instagram Model in Real Life… (Without Liking Their Pics!) | 4x4 Recall Ep. 11 (00:26:15)
What are the detrimental effects of social media thirst traps? Discover six strategies to shift your mindset, navigate digital distractions, and connect with real women in your community. Chad shares personal anecdotes, practical advice, and emphasizes the importance of real-life interactions over virtual dopamine hits. Learn how to regain control of your attention and foster meaningful relationships while escaping the allure of social media. 00:00 Meet-Your-IG-Model-In-Real-Life 00:15 That Nasty Social Media Rot 01:24 Six Key Points 02:07 Life Is Rich 03:56 Point One 04:58 Getting In Real Life 05:53 Find Your Type 07:42 Point Two 09:12 In Real Life With Real Resources 10:40 IRL is the Secret Sauce 11:05 Point Three 11:42 The Social Media Pedestal 13:05 Setup For Disappointment 14:12 Point Four 14:54 We Like Looking At Ourselves 16:15 Point Five 17:30 Real Social Proof 18:36 Meeting Them In Real Life 19:18 Real Life Real Hormones 20:02 Get Shot Down Challenge 21:06 Point Six 21:31 Being Beautiful Doesn't Work For A Man 22:14 Men Taking Selfies 23:02 Avoiding The Friend Zone 23:52 Tactical Bonuses 24:37 Expensive Gym Memberships? 25:10 Don't Be A Wagging Tail 25:58 Stop Chasing
- 5 Things That Will Change Your Life — From Dating Mastery to Extraordinary Success | 4x4 Recall Ep. 10 (00:26:30)
This episode is a break down of the key results that will not only change your dating life but also lead to extraordinary professional and personal achievements. Discover how boosting your confidence, especially in dating, can enhance your overall life quality and success. Chad shares personal anecdotes, from navigating social settings with ease to understanding the importance of living with authenticity and courage. If you're an entrepreneur or business professional looking to elevate your relationships and self-esteem, this is a video for you! 00:00 5-Extraordinary-Dating-Results 00:25 Intro 01:28 Shout Out To The Wife 01:51 Note On Apathy 02:40 Point One 03:18 Is It All About Looks? 03:48 An Assumption of Sophistication 04:12 Approaching Ten Women 04:56 You Owe Here AND You This Spark 05:46 Where Rejection Fits In 06:47 You Deserve The Woman Of Your Dreams 07:07 Point Two 08:10 What Happens When A Girl Is Teasing You? 09:50 How Does Confidence Impact Your Career? 10:33 Their Missed Opportunity 10:49 Competition With Other Men 12:05 Compounding Success 12:41 Confidence Around Key Leaders 13:48 Point Three 14:07 Extraordinary Results 15:52 Flow State In Your Problem Solving 17:07 The Extraordinary Results Are Not Far Away 17:53 Point Four 18:50 Generating Money Creatively 19:38 Little Things In Business Worth Millions 20:42 Point Five 22:03 IPO Millions 22:52 More Money Than You Could Ever Make 23:16 More Attractive Women Than You Could Ever Date 24:13 What Do You Do When Dating Is So Easy 24:58 Bonuses 25:35 Other Women Want To Be Around You 27:04 You're An Amazing Man
- If You Want To Be With Them, Stop This... | 4x4 Recall Ep. 9 (00:22:08)
What are the secret methods and behaviors that make certain men naturally attractive to women? Discover the IDF framework and understand why neediness, over-investing in communication, and insecurity can drive women away. Learn how to build genuine confidence, create more dates, and improve your personal and professional life through actionable tips and real-life experiences. Whether you're seeking success in dating, sales, or business, this episode provides the insights you need to elevate your game. Other Channels Mentioned: Bentinho Massaro Sections: 00:00 Noticed That Swagger? 00:33 Main Problem 00:52 Intro 01:05 IDF Lead In 01:43 Already Always... 02:28 Broad Impact 02:47 The Natural 8 Brother 03:17 Elevator Sigh 05:04 Non-Neediness Be-Cool Atmosphere 05:29 Five Points 05:32 Point One 06:00 Over Investing in Text Messages 07:27 The Emotional Flavor 07:52 What Good Looks Like 08:54 Point Two 09:04 A Date Gone Terribly Wrong 09:51 You're Projecting Insecurity and Self Doubt 10:56 She's Already Showing Interest 11:29 Allow For Quiet 12:15 Find Your Center 13:12 Your Job Is To Polarize 13:30 None Of Your Business 13:48 Point Three 14:52 Neediness Repels Her 15:57 It Doesn't Help Her To Be Straight Forward 16:34 How Most Men React to Rejection 17:33 Point Four - IDF Method 18:43 What Does Rejection Mean? 19:29 Point Five
- If You Want To Get Attractive Don't Communicate Like This | 4x4 Recall Ep. 8 (00:21:30)
Learn the common pitfalls men stumble into in dating and communication. In this episode, we emphasize the importance of maintaining mystery, avoiding neediness, and over-communicating in romantic pursuits. By sharing insights on women's slower pace of developing attraction compared to men, strategies to communicate without expectations, and the significance of creating space, Chad provides practical advice to help men cultivate more meaningful relationships. He also highlights the detrimental effects of chasing and over-engagement on social media. Tune in for tactical tips and profound insights to navigate modern dating dynamics. 00:00 Keep-Them-Attracted-To-You 00:56 Intro 01:25 Point One 02:04 Women Want To Feel Secure 03:19 Point Two 03:58 Authenticity vs. Pleasing 04:55 The Creepiness Detector 06:37 The Bar Is Low 07:39 The Work Is In Showing Up Consistently Non-Needy 09:02 Point Three 09:36 You Own Your Personal Image 10:28 Do This If You Want To LOSE Your Woman 11:19 Set The Next Date On The Spot? 12:09 Find The Appropriate Energy 13:00 Emotional Intelligence and Situational Awareness 14:40 Don't Be The Weak Floppy Man 16:57 Tactics 17:26 No Amount of Over Talking Creates Mystery 19:15 The Odds In Your Favor 20:44 What Would Your Busy Self Do?
- Can Married Men Listen To Dating Advice? | 4x4 Recall Ep. 7 (00:20:36)
What's the importance of married men consuming dating content? This episode highlights how it can benefit various aspects of life, from improving charisma and confidence to enhancing leadership skills and frame control. Chad shares personal anecdotes and key insights on maintaining mystery and charm in marriage, the significance of continual self-improvement, and the impact of a confident demeanor on personal and professional relationships. Tune in for practical advice, thought-provoking perspectives, and actionable takeaways designed to help you become a better, more confident version of yourself. 00:00 Why-Shouldn't-Married-Men-Listen-To-Dating-Advice 00:30 Intro 00:42 Premise 01:14 Background 02:23 Is It Cheating? 02:50 Point One 03:32 You're Never Finished 04:34 Leadership Never Stops 05:06 Leading From The Front 05:49 Humor And Challenge 07:10 You Own The Mystery 07:44 Choose To Lead 09:22 Point Two 10:15 Pouring Yourself Into The World 10:51 How This Affects Your Whole Life 11:53 Who Deserves This Best Version Of You? 12:38 Point Three 14:22 Leadership And Frame Control 15:41 Gambits That Work 16:30 Point Four 18:10 About Not Having To Oversell Yourself 18:52 Bonuses Books Mentioned: David Deida's The Way Of The Superior Man Other Podcasts Mentioned: Mark Sing's The Unapologetic Man
- A Key Formula To Double Your Dating | 4x4 Recall Ep. 6 (00:23:10)
The Ultimate 9-Point Framework for Mastering Dating and Success in Life In this episode of 4x4 Recall, we delve into a transformative 9-point framework designed to help you master not only your dating life but also your professional world. Through personal anecdotes, including transitioning from military to corporate life, Chad talks about how principles of authenticity, non-neediness, and frame control facilitate success in various aspects of life. Learn why 'No' is not bad, the importance of standing for something, and how to communicate like a high-value individual. This episode provides actionable insights into navigating relationships, understanding social dynamics, and maintaining intrigue to keep the spark alive. Don't miss out on these essential tips to elevate your dating game and overall life strategy. 00:00 7-Point-Dating-Framework-Nov-2024 01:25 Point One 03:20 Point Two 04:25 Frame Control 06:38 Uncertainty 07:18 Point Three 08:01 Asking A Girl Out 08:34 Understanding Social Dynamics 09:11 Dating Games vs. Business Games 09:51 Point Four 11:12 How Would You Behave With A Full Schedule? 13:25 Set Definite Times and Places 15:12 The Phone Is For Logistics Only 16:06 Point Five 16:36 Don't Rush 17:26 Let Her Chase You 18:41 Point Six 21:12 Point Seven 21:30 Dating Is Fun 22:26 Point Eight
- Here's the 4-Point Framework for the PERFECT FIRST DATE... | 4x4 Recall Ep. 5 (00:23:23)
Everything you thought you knew about the first date is probably wrong! Learn how to make the woman chase you, how to keep her wondering about you all week before the date, and how to have her write letters home to mom after. Communicate with her perfectly, so that she is working to please YOU. Set your date up so that the logistics work in YOUR favor, and she's falling into YOUR frame.
- Is Doing Multiple First Dates in the Same Week Normal? | 4x4 Recall Ep. 4 (00:19:48)
What's too crazy or too busy when it comes to dating? Is the misconception that men can't get enough dates just societal conditioning? This episode emphasizes the importance of filling up one's calendar with dates to avoid making needy decisions. The host encourages men to engage in activities they enjoy and confidently approach women in those settings, gradually increasing their comfort level and success rate. The strategy involves aiming for four dates a week and finding a balance between 'sure things' and new prospects, ultimately leading to a steady, confident dating life.
- Is it Too LATE to DATE at 40? | 4x4 Recall Ep. 3 (00:21:24)
What do you do if you need to get back out on the dating scene right now? Is everyone too young for you? Is it all a waste? Successful dating is simpler than most think. If you focus on some key points, you'll find that you have almost NO competition. Books Mentioned: Corey Wayne's How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams. Mexico Hotel Mentioned: Hacienda Del Secreto, in Playa Del Carmen.
- Are all the Sexy & Confident Men Gone? | Secret Dating Results — Renee Garcia, author of Quantum Capitalist. | 4x4 Recall Ep. 2 (00:46:24)
How do you attract unlimited health, wealth, and epic reality into your life? In this episode, Chad interviews Renee Garcia, author of 'Quantum Capitalist', exploring themes like Reality Transurfing, a modality integrating Eastern philosophy, mysticism, and the Law of Attraction. Renee discusses her journey with Reality Transurfing and its profound impact on her life and others. They delve into the balance between masculine and feminine energies in relationships, emphasizing the importance of non-attachment and authenticity in dating. Renee shares personal anecdotes on leaving a long-term relationship, realizing the significance of engaging deeply on intellectual and emotional levels, and highlights how men can attract desirable partners by dropping importance and embodying genuine confidence. The conversation touches on the human experience, the matrix of societal programming, and practical advice for navigating romantic dynamics. You don't want to miss it! Books Mentioned: Sherry Argov's Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl―A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship. Renee Garcia's Quantum Capitalist: A Revolution of Self, Wealth, and Reality. Vadim Zeland's Reality transurfing. Steps I-V.
- The 14 Point Framework of Dating in 19 Minutes… | 4x4 Recall Ep. 1 (00:18:12)
What if you could have every dating tip in 14 points? This episode breaks down a 14-step framework, distilled from almost 20 years of dating experiences, aimed at helping men build confidence and success with women. The discussion includes personal anecdotes and practical advice, emphasizing the importance of handling rejection, polarizing quickly, setting definite times and dates, and maintaining an abundant mindset. Books Mentioned: Corey Wayne's How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams. Richard Fenton & Andrea Waltz' Go for No! Yes is the Destination, No is How You Get There.