Married for 37 years and parents of four daughters (two adopted, two biological), David, a divorce lawyer, and Julie, a family therapist, have both been witness to families struggling with life’s most difficult challenges and at the same time, they have weathered their own struggles at home. Authors of two award winning books, the Bulitts delve into the conversations they have had, those they should have had and those that every couple needs to have in order to find success, happiness and fulfillment.
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In this special New Year’s episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt take a break from interviews and deep conversations to reflect on their favorite memories, moments, products, and experiences from 2025 — and what they’re looking forward to in 2026.
From wedding memories and Western bars to binge-worthy TV, eye drops that work like magic, and matching tattoos inspired by a streaming show — this episode is a mix of fun, laughs, nostalgia, and recommendations for anyone looking to close out the year on a high note.
📦 Favorite Things Include:
👰 Best moment: Officiating their daughter’s wedding
💃 Best date night: Salt + Vine & cowboy dance lessons in Wyoming
🧴 Favorite products: Lumify eye drops, RevitaLash, La Roche-Posay B5 serum
🎵 Music finds: The Dip, Red Clay Strays, and Ashley McBryde
🎥 Best shows: The Beast in Me, Landman, Shrinking, Nobody Wants This
🍔 Best food: Cheeseburger at No Name Saloon & Costco’s croissant pastry
📚 Best book: The Many Lives of Mama Love by Lara Love Hardin
🏔️ Best view: Snake River and Tetons on horseback in Jackson Hole
Join us as we toast to all the good stuff, and maybe inspire you to reflect on what you’re most grateful for too.
🥂 Cheers to love, laughter, and connection in 2026!
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53: Managing Relationship Crisis with Dr. Becky Whetstone (00:36:56)
This week on Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt talk with nationally recognized marriage and family therapist Dr. Becky Whetstone, also known as the Marriage Crisis Manager. Becky is the author of I Think I Want Out and brings her decades of experience helping couples navigate the brink of divorce with honesty, strategy, and heart.
In this episode, the three dive deep into what really happens when one partner quietly checks out, the surprising traits that predict a happy marriage (hint: flexibility matters more than romance), and why so many people never say they’re unhappy—until it’s too late.
📘 Dr. Becky shares:
✅ The Gottman-backed traits that predict marital success
⚠️ What a “decider” is and how to catch unhappiness before it blows up
🧠 Why trauma, shame, and grandiosity destroy communication
🔄 The power of “repair conversations” and how to do them the right way
💬 Real-life examples from couples in crisis (and how they pulled back from the edge)
🛑 How to use separation therapeutically instead of rushing into divorce
Plus, hear Julie & David’s own take on decades of marriage, how they resolve conflict using “Safe Talk,” and why they never want to go back into the dating pool again.
🔗 Learn More About Dr. Becky Whetstone
📚 Author: I Think I Want Out: What to Do When One of You Wants to End Your Marriage
🌐 Website: www.marriagecrisismanager.com
📝 Blog: Becky Whetstone on Medium
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52: Building a Business and a Family with Tisha and Phil (00:33:27)
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Tisha and Phil Jordan — a Baltimore couple whose love story started on Bumble and grew into a six‑kid blended family, a thriving home renovation business, and soon—a podcast of their own.
Tisha is a social worker turned powerhouse contractor and founder of ContractHER, a mission‑driven business teaching women how to take control of home projects and empower themselves through skilled trades. Phil, her husband, biggest supporter and partner in both love and life, shares their story of fast love, deep respect, co‑parenting, career changes, and doing the work of building everything together.
🎙 What’s Inside:
💖 Falling in love in just a few days and marrying within 10 months
👷🏽♀️ Why Tisha left her social work career to start ContractHER
🧰 How ContractHER empowers women with real skills — from power tools to confidence
👨👩👧👦 Blending a family of 6 kids and navigating co‑parenting across households
😂 How laughter (and dressing up!) became their love language
💬 Honest talk about finances, working together, and carving out healthy space
🎧 A sneak peek at their upcoming podcast: The Love Build Podcast
This episode is packed with love, grit, inspiration, and plenty of laughs. Whether you’re building a relationship, a business — or both — Tisha & Phil show that it’s never too late to start over and build something beautiful.
🔗 Get to Know Tisha & Phil
ContractHER — Home improvement & empowerment for women
✉️ Email: info@thecontracther.com
🌐 Website: www.thecontracther.com
📸 Instagram (business): @contract_her — share, follow & learn: https://www.instagram.com/contract_her
🎙 Podcast: The Love Build Podcast — YT & IG: @thelovebuild
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51: Mediation Matters with Joe Dillon (00:33:36)
Divorce Mediation, Virtual Breakups & Real Boundaries — with Joe Dillon
On this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Joe Dillon, co-founder of Equitable Mediation Services, to dive deep into the world of divorce mediation, emotional intelligence, and how money and emotion often collide during the end of a marriage.
Joe combines his MBA in Finance with extensive training from Harvard, MIT, and Northwestern, and has been a virtual mediation pioneer since 2011—long before it became the norm. But what really stands out is Joe’s personal story as a child of a highly litigated divorce, which fuels his compassionate, process-driven approach to helping couples separate without destroying their families.
🎙 What’s Inside:
💼 Why most divorce mediators are lawyers—and why Joe isn’t
🔍 How deceit, ego, and entitlement derail divorce
🧠 Using coaching and emotional preparation to mediate better
⚖️ What Joe learned from growing up in a courtroom (literally)
👥 How he and his wife, Cheryl, balance working together and staying connected
📍 Which states are actually mediation-friendly—and why that matters
This episode is full of real-life insight, warmth, and practical advice for couples thinking about divorce, in the middle of it, or supporting others through it.
🖥️ Learn more about Joe's work:
🌐 https://www.equitablemediation.com
🔗 Free resources, videos, blog posts, and eBooks available
📞 Free intro calls available directly on the site
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50: EPISODE 50, What have we learned? (00:21:06)
In this milestone episode, Julie and David Bullitt reflect on their journey through 50 episodes of Conversations for Couples. From matchmakers to marriage therapists, Golden Bachelor celebrities to international couples, they’ve welcomed 41 guests from around the world to share insights on love, sex, grief, parenting, etiquette, fashion, and everything in between.
You’ll hear them revisit some of the most memorable moments—from arranged marriages and Appalachian Trail love stories to etiquette lessons and yoni massages. They also highlight guests like Joan Vassos, Sydnée Sadick, Andrea McGinty, and Susan Bratton, and share what they’ve learned from each.
Whether you're a long-time listener or new to the show, this episode offers a heartfelt recap, meaningful takeaways, and a few laughs (and barks from Archie the dog) along the way.
👇 Watch, listen, follow, and share. Help us get to episode 100!
🎧 Featured Guests Mentioned
🔹 Andrea McGinty (Founder, It's Just Lunch)
https://www.33000dates.com/
📧 33kdates@gmail.com
📢 PR: Kat at ceo@do-tellpr.com
🔹 Alison M. Cheperdak (Founder, Elevate Etiquette, LLC)
🌐 https://elevateetiquette.com/
📧 alison@elevateetiquette.com
📱 c. 774.278.0649
🔹 Sydney Sadick (Fashion & Lifestyle Expert)
📺 sydneysadick.com
🔹 Susan Bratton (Sex & Intimacy Expert)
🌐 https://susanbratton.com
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49: The Longest 1st Date; Finding Love on the AT (00:35:50)
In this special episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with real-life adventurers Annie Kane and Jake Lebert—a couple who met while hiking the Appalachian Trail solo... and ended up hiking all 2,200 miles together.
💍 They now live in Virginia, are planning a wedding at the exact spot where they met (Fontana Dam), and have an incredible love story built around mud, sweat, blisters, and heart.
🎙 Inside this episode:
🥾 What it’s like to hike for 6 months straight with someone you just met
💬 How deep conversations (and zero distractions) built their relationship
⚠️ Falling, rattlesnakes, weather—and how they supported each other through it
🚐 Living together in a converted school bus post-trail
🐾 Life now with two dachshunds, a pottery class, and a new puppy
❤️ Lessons about love, patience, independence, and adventure
If you’ve ever dreamed of hiking the Appalachian Trail, or wondered how connection can grow in the most unexpected places—this episode will inspire you.
📍Their advice? Go for it. And never quit on a bad day.
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48: Fashion and Fun with Sydney Sadick (00:35:26)
On this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt return from their summer hiatus with an inspiring, stylish, and high-energy guest—Sydney Sadick, national fashion/media commentator, editor, and founder of Spotlight Magazine.
You’ve seen her on Good Morning America, The Today Show, Access Hollywood, and Fox 5 DC—and today, she sits down with the Bulitts to talk about how fashion can impact confidence, relationships, and identity, as well as the behind-the-scenes world of entrepreneurship and publishing.
🎙 What’s inside:
👠 How clothing choices influence self-esteem and connection
🧥 Why couples should still dress up for each other (yes, even after 10+ years!)
👜 Starting a luxury magazine from scratch—Spotlight’s rise in NYC, the Hamptons, Palm Beach & Miami
💬 What makes a strong personal brand—and how to stay authentic
💼 How she navigates marriage, business, beauty, and ambition (with support from her husband and mom!)
Sydney also shares stories about shopping smart, reusing pieces, trusting your team, and that hilarious moment when her husband raised an eyebrow at a very glamorous photo shoot.
📘 Check out her book: Aim High: How to Style Your Life and Achieve Your Goals
📰 Follow her magazine: Spotlight Magazine
📲 Follow Sydney on Instagram: @sydneysadick
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47: Date Night Talking Taylor, Travis and Celeb Marriages (00:25:11)
On this date-night edition of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt grab a cocktail and dive into a conversation that started on their recent Fox 5 “Lion Lunch” appearance—celebrity marriages and whether public relationships can actually survive.
From Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement to Billy Joel and Christie Brinkley’s struggles, the Bulitts explore what makes high-profile relationships so difficult—and what lessons we all can take from them. With honesty, humor, and a few personal stories (including a proposal with a hotdog 🐶💍), they break down:
💔 Why 80% of celebrity marriages end in divorce
🔐 The power of privacy and boundaries in a relationship
🧠 Ego, attention, and the human brain’s need for more
📱 How social media has changed every relationship—celebrity or not
💬 The importance of curiosity, mutual respect, and open communication
🥂 And of course… what Travis and Taylor can do to beat the odds
This is an honest, fun, and insightful episode you won’t want to miss—especially if you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to balance love and limelight.
🎧 Subscribe to Conversations for Couples for real talk about love, marriage, conflict, dating, and everything in between.
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46: Dating in Today’s World with “It’s Just Lunch” Founder, Andrea McGinty (00:33:18)
This week on Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by Andrea McGinty, a leading national dating expert and founder of both It’s Just Lunch and 33,000 Dates. With decades of experience helping people navigate the often confusing (and sometimes comical) world of modern dating, Andrea offers a fresh and empowering take on finding love—especially over 40, 50, or beyond.
In this candid and energetic conversation, Andrea breaks down:
💬 How dating apps have changed everything (for better or worse)
📸 Why your photos matter—and what not to do
💔 Rejection and confidence: How to bounce back
💡 What makes a great first date
🧠 How to emotionally prepare for dating again
🔥 Yes, they talk about sex, too.
Whether you’re single, divorced, widowed, or just curious about the state of dating today, this episode offers real insight, expert advice, and a little tough love.
📘 Andrea’s Book: Second Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 50
🌐 Website: https://www.33000dates.com
📧 Email: 33kdates@gmail.com
📣 PR Contact: Kat – ceo@do-tellpr.com
🎧 Subscribe to Conversations for Couples for honest talk about love, marriage, connection—and finding it again.
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45: Mental Health, Harm and Healing with Artist and Author Tracey Yokas (00:23:34)
In this powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by artist, author, and mental health advocate Tracy Yoka Kos, whose memoir Bloodlines: A Memoir of Harm and Healing explores her family’s painful but inspiring journey through mental illness, eating disorders, and the complicated healing process that followed.
Tracy shares the story of her daughter’s sudden descent into severe anorexia, depression, and anxiety following the unexpected death of Tracy’s mother—and how it impacted not only their daughter’s life, but their marriage and personal histories. Tracy opens up about her own background with trauma, her late diagnosis of chronic PTSD, and the emotional hurdles she and her husband faced in learning to support their daughter and themselves.
The conversation dives deep into parenting under pressure, the dynamics between partners during a crisis, the generational impact of trauma, and the role of creativity in healing. Tracy also discusses how mixed media art became a tool for emotional regulation and self-care—and how she now helps others reconnect with themselves through creative practices.
📖 Learn more about Tracy & her book:
🌐 https://www.tracyyokacreates.com
📘 Bloodlines: A Memoir of Harm and Healing — Available wherever books are sold
🎧 Subscribe for more honest conversations about love, parenting, and the complexities of real relationships.
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44: Be The Thermostat, Not The Thermometer In Your Relationships (00:19:33)
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt return to their roots with a guest-free conversation about emotional regulation, communication, and how to respond instead of react in your relationship. Inspired by a clip they came across on social media, the Bulitts unpack the powerful concept of being a thermostat—someone who sets the emotional tone—instead of a thermometer that merely reflects the mood of others or the environment.
Through real-life examples (like spilled water on a laptop and the chaos of moving into a new house), they share how they’ve each succeeded and struggled with staying grounded during life’s curveballs. They also dive into how this concept plays out between partners and explore the role of clarity, co-regulation, respect, and gratitude in building a stable, healthy connection.
Whether you're in a new relationship or married for decades, this episode offers relatable stories and practical advice for being more intentional in your day-to-day life and relationship dynamics.
🎧 Subscribe for more honest conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between.
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43: Etiquette: What and Why? (00:26:54)
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Alison M. Cheperdak, J.D., Founder of Elevate Etiquette, to explore the role of etiquette in modern relationships.
From wedding invitations to everyday communication with your partner, Alison shares how etiquette isn’t just about which fork to use—it’s about kindness, respect, and emotional intelligence. They discuss the importance of dressing with intention, praising in public, communicating clearly, and handling conflict thoughtfully. Whether you're newly dating or decades into a marriage, this episode offers insightful, practical tips for navigating relationships with grace.
🔗 Learn more about Alison and Elevate Etiquette:
🌐 elevateetiquette.com
📧 alison@elevateetiquette.com
📱 774-278-0649
💬 Instagram | YouTube | TikTok | Threads → @elevateetiquette
🎧 Subscribe for more real conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between.
42: Grief and Resilience with Author Jessica Fein (00:44:19)
In this emotional and powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with author, speaker, and advocate Jessica Fein to talk about love, loss, and resilience in the face of unimaginable challenges. Jessica opens up about her marriage, infertility journey, the international adoption of her three children, and the heartbreaking experience of losing her daughter Dahlia to a rare mitochondrial disease.
Together, they explore the strength of partnership through adversity, how grief reshapes relationships, and what it means to truly “lean in” as a couple. Jessica also shares how she honors Dahlia’s memory and continues to advocate for families navigating rare diseases and grief.
📖 Learn more about Jessica’s book Breathtaking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes
🌐 Visit Jessica at https://jessicafeinstories.com
📧 Subscribe to her Substack: Fine By Me
🐾 Plus, the heartwarming story of Dahlia’s dog, Blacko 🐶
🎧 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between.
41: Diving Into Men's Sexual Health with Dr. Elliot Justin, MD (00:39:04)
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Dr. Elliott Justin, a physician, entrepreneur, and the founder of FirmTech—a company pioneering sexual wellness and performance through smart ring technology. Together, they discuss men’s health, intimacy, the stigma around erectile dysfunction, and how Dr. Justin’s innovation is changing the conversation around relationships and sexual connection.
Tune in as we explore:
Why male sexual health is so often overlooked in relationships
How technology like FirmTech’s ring is giving couples insights into their physical connection
The emotional and relational impacts of ED
Ways to open communication around intimacy and performance in your relationship
Dr. Justin brings warmth, honesty, and groundbreaking knowledge to a conversation that so many couples shy away from—but desperately need to have.
✨ More episodes: www.thebulitts.com
💍 Visit FirmTech: www.myfirmtech.com
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🎧 Hosted by:
Julie Bulitt – Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Family Therapist
David Bulitt – Divorce & Family Lawyer
40: The Arringtons A Pro Athlete. A Power Couple (00:32:59)
Welcome to Conversations for Couples — the podcast where Julie and David Bulitt dive into the real conversations that every relationship needs to have. With over 30 years of experience in family therapy and over 35 years in divorce and family law, Julie and David bring their insights into navigating life’s toughest challenges.
In today’s episode, we sit down with Kyle and Vashonda Arrington, a powerhouse couple who’ve been married for 13 years and share their journey from high school sweethearts to building their own successful careers. Kyle, a former New England Patriots Super Bowl champion, and Vashonda, a business executive and entrepreneur, reveal how they balance family, careers, and philanthropy.
Together, they discuss the challenges they’ve faced, the personal growth they’ve experienced, and the transition from Kyle’s football career to life after sports. Kyle shares the emotional rollercoaster of dealing with a career-ending concussion and how his relationship with Vashonda helped him through it.
Vashonda also talks about the powerful work they’re doing with the Evolve Foundation, which is committed to helping marginalized communities through educational initiatives and support programs for children and families.
Tune in for an inspiring conversation about resilience, love, and finding your way through life’s toughest seasons.
🔹 Follow the Evolve Foundation:
Website: www.theevolvefoundation.org
Instagram: @TheEvolveFoundation
39: Staying Chosen and Cherished with Jon Van Viegen, MFT (00:29:45)
Can fighting over text actually help your relationship? Therapist and author Jonathan Van Viegen thinks so—and his no-nonsense, anti-jargon approach to couples therapy is reshaping how partners communicate, connect, and build lasting love.
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jonathan to discuss:
Why emotional flooding shuts down productive conversation
The problem with over-focusing on "triggers"
Why traditional therapy labels like "attachment styles" can be harmful
How to shift focus from problems to possibilities
The power of physical connection as a relationship barometer
Jonathan’s take on curiosity, self-reflection, and shared identity
Whether you’re newlyweds or decades in, this conversation challenges the conventional and encourages couples to reimagine how they show up for one another—every single day.
🧠 Learn more about Jonathan: Instagram: @jonathanvanviegen
🌐 More episodes: www.thebulitts.com
📲 Follow us everywhere: @TheBulitts
🎙️ Hosted by Julie and David Bulitt
38: Getting into it with The Boundary Badasses (00:27:17)
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jan and Jillian Yuhas—sisters, authors, and relationship consultants behind the book Boundary Badass. Based in Dallas, Jan and Jillian specialize in helping couples navigate communication, conflict, boundaries, and power imbalances—especially during marriage or divorce.
Together, they explore:
What coercive control looks like and how to recognize it
How to negotiate vs. compromise in a relationship
Setting personal and relationship boundaries
Speaking from your “authentic voice”
How unresolved childhood wounds affect adult dynamics
How to shift from conflict to connection in healthy ways
Whether you're trying to repair a marriage, end one respectfully, or just deepen your connection, this episode offers practical advice from experts with years of experience.
📘 Check out their book: Boundary Badass
🌐 Learn more at: www.janandjillian.com
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📲 Follow us everywhere: @TheBulitts
37: The Anxious Generation | Why Kids Are More Anxious Than Ever | Conversations for Couples Podcast (00:23:27)
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt dive into The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt—a powerful and eye-opening look at how the rise of smartphones, social media, and a decline in real-world play are fueling an epidemic of anxiety and depression in kids.
As a family therapist and a divorce lawyer with decades of experience—and as parents and grandparents—Julie and David bring personal stories, professional insight, and practical takeaways to help families navigate modern parenting.
They explore:
The importance of free play for healthy brain development
How overprotection in the real world and underprotection online is hurting kids
Concrete steps to reduce anxiety and build resilience
Why schools and parents should rethink kids and smartphones
If you're raising children, working with kids, or simply wondering what’s changed in the past decade, this is a must-listen.
🎧 Learn more at: www.afloodoflove.com
📲 Follow us on all platforms: @TheBullitts
📖 Book discussed: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
36: Marrying Business and Love with The Couplepreneurs (00:33:48)
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Kyle and Ariel from Couple Entrepreneurs—a married couple in South Florida who not only run a successful business together but also coach other entrepreneurial couples on how to grow their business without growing apart.
They share their personal journey of moving from the “anti-honeymoon” phase to becoming business partners and co-founders. Together, we explore:
The early struggles of working with your spouse
Boundaries that protect both the relationship and the business
Communication tactics that build respect and clarity
The "four-part framework" every couple in business should know: Vision, Goals, Strategy, and Roles
How to reignite romance after work mode
Why building couple confidence is essential for long-term success
💡 Whether you're in business with your partner or just want to communicate better, this episode is packed with practical advice, heartfelt moments, and real talk.
Links & Resources:
🔗 Learn more about Kyle & Ariel's work:
https://kyleandariel.com/cplive
📲 Follow them on Instagram:
https://instagram.com/couplepreneurs
DM the word “VISION” for their free Vision Date guide!
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35: Conquering Intimacy Conflict with Steph Flood, LMFT (00:30:50)
Why is it so hard for couples to talk about sex and intimacy—even after years together?
In this powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt sit down with licensed therapist and intimacy expert Steph Flood to talk all things sex, shame, vulnerability, and communication in long-term relationships.
Steph has worked with over 1,000 couples, helping them reignite their intimacy and navigate issues like mismatched libidos, infidelity, low sex drive, and that all-too-common post-kid disconnect. She brings honesty, humor, and professional insight into one of the most vulnerable topics couples face.
💬 What We Cover in This Episode:
Why we’re never taught how to talk about sex
The shame and silence around intimacy in relationships
Why parenting and menopause are intimacy killers—and how to reconnect
What really happens with mismatched sex drives
The truth about porn, performance anxiety, and unrealistic expectations
How to rekindle desire when your bodies—and routines—have changed
The “daily affection” tip that helps couples stay close
Why honest check-ins and communication may save your marriage
Steph’s 3 go-to tips for couples struggling with sex
📌 Steph’s Top 3 Tips:
Have regular intimacy check-ins: "How’s this going for you?" goes a long way.
Practice daily affection: Hugs, touch, and physical closeness—not just sex—keep your bond strong.
Be honest about your needs before they turn into resentments. Vulnerability builds connection.
👩💻 More About Steph Flood:
Steph is a Nashville-based marriage and family therapist who offers virtual therapy, courses, and coaching for couples across the country.
📲 Find her at:
🔗 Website: www.afloodoflove.com
📸 Instagram: @stephfloodoflove
💑 Hosted by Julie & David Bullitt
Julie is a licensed family therapist. David is a divorce and family lawyer. Married for 38 years, they've worked with couples through the toughest of times—and come out stronger.
📍 Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
02:00 Why Is Sex So Hard to Talk About?
06:40 Shame, Religion, and the Messages We Inherit
09:50 Common Points Where Couples Drift
12:20 How to Talk About Intimacy Without Blame
15:15 Post-Kids, Menopause, and Low Libido
20:00 When Porn Becomes a Problem
23:30 Communication Tools: Check-Ins, Affection & Honesty
28:10 Daily Touch & the “Are You Needing More?” Conversation
31:00 Safe Communication for When You Feel Disconnected
34:00 Steph’s Online Course & How to Work With Her
36:00 Final Takeaways
🔔 Subscribe to our podcast for honest conversations, helpful advice, and real-life stories about what it takes to make love last.
🎧 Listen to Conversations for Couples on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.
🌐 Learn more at www.thebullitts.com
34: Still Golden! A Visit with Joan and Chock (00:37:59)
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, we’re joined by Golden Bachelorette Joan Vassos and her fiancé Chock, the fan-favorite from The Golden Bachelor! 💛
It’s been a year since Joan left the Golden Bachelor and began a journey with Chuck—and now, they’re falling in love, managing life in different states, merging families, and navigating a relationship later in life. We dive into real-life love after 60, communication styles, intimacy, family blending, and how they’ve handled being in the spotlight while building something authentic.
🌟 In This Episode, We Discuss:
How Joan & Chock built a relationship after The Golden Bachelor
Why communication is at the heart of their connection
Navigating intimacy and connection later in life
Merging adult families and celebrating the holidays together
Managing long-distance love with intention
Dealing with public pressure, fans, and the doubters
Their honest take on what it’s really like dating on TV
Chock’s sock situation (yes, you read that right 😂)
💬 Favorite Quotes:
➡️ "Do you want me to just listen or give my opinion?"
➡️ "You can be right, or you can be married."
➡️ "We make each other a priority—every single day."
🔗 Follow Joan & Chock
📸 Joan: @joan_vassos
📸 Chock: @chockchapple
💘 Show: The Golden Bachelor on ABC
📍 Chapters
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:30 Life After The Golden Bachelor
05:45 Long-Distance Love & Making It Fun
09:20 Merging Families for the Holidays
13:00 Building Trust & Blocking Out the Noise
17:45 Relationship Communication Styles: Rant or Remedy
23:00 Silver Bullets & Safe Talk – Handling Disagreements
28:50 Intimacy Later in Life: A Real Conversation
34:10 Spark, Closeness & What They’ve Learned
40:00 Parking Spot Drama & The Great Sock Debate
46:00 Dealing with Public Attention & Jealousy
51:00 Final Thoughts: Building a Love That Lasts
💌 We’re Julie & David Bullitt
🔹 Married 38 years, therapist & divorce attorney duo
🔹 Follow us @TheBulitts
🔹 Website: www.thebulitts.com
🎙️ Podcast: Conversations for Couples
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33: Dolly and Carl Dean- Lessons for All of Us (00:18:14)
Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we're diving into the incredible love story of Dolly Parton and her husband, Carl Dean, who were married for nearly 60 years before his recent passing. 💔
Dolly and Carl had one of the most unique and private marriages in Hollywood history. They spent months apart, lived independent lives, and still remained deeply in love. What can we learn from their relationship? In this episode, we explore:
💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How Dolly & Carl met at a laundromat in 1964
The story behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s famous response to the real-life woman
Why Carl never attended Dolly’s performances after the 1960s
How they balanced time apart & built a lasting relationship
The importance of secure attachment & trust in relationships
Why they chose not to have children and how they made that decision together
What made their love so strong despite their differences
✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
🎶 Dolly Parton’s Official Website: https://dollyparton.com
📖 Dolly’s Book “Dolly: My Life and Other Unfinished Business”
💡 Read More About Attachment Styles: Attachment Theory Resource
🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:20 How Dolly & Carl Met: A Love Story at the Laundromat
04:10 The Story Behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s Response to the Woman
07:30 Why Carl Dean Avoided the Spotlight for 50+ Years
10:45 The Secret to Their Long-Lasting Love: Time Apart & Trust
14:30 Secure Attachment & How It Strengthens Relationships
19:15 Why Dolly & Carl Chose to Be Child-Free
22:40 Independence & Connection: The Key to Their Happiness
27:10 Final Thoughts: What We Can Learn from Dolly & Dean
30:00 Share Your Thoughts: How Do You Balance Space & Connection?
💬 What do you think about Dolly & Carl’s relationship? Do you and your partner spend time apart? Let us know in the comments!
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🔹 Website: www.thebulitts.com
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32: Finding Love with DC's Matchmaker, Kate O'Connor (00:28:44)
Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we’re diving into the world of elite matchmaking with Kate O’Connor, a Vice President & Executive Matchmaker at Select Date Society. If you're tired of dating apps, looking for real connections, or ready for a fresh start in love, this episode is for you!
Kate shares insider secrets on matchmaking for high-net-worth individuals, overcoming dating fears, and building strong relationships that last. Whether it's your first, second, or third time looking for love, this episode is packed with dating wisdom, relationship insights, and expert advice to help you find your person.
💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How elite matchmaking works (and why high-net-worth individuals use it)
Why checklist dating doesn’t work (and what to focus on instead)
The top relationship challenges & how to overcome them
Understanding attachment styles & personality types in dating
How to flirt naturally and build genuine attraction
Dealing with fear of rejection & past relationship baggage
Finding love after divorce or loss
Kate’s personal love story & what she learned along the way
✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
🔗 Select Date Society - Find a Match
🔗 Kate O’Connor on LinkedIn
🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:05 Meet Kate O’Connor: Elite Matchmaker
04:10 What Does a Matchmaker Actually Do?
07:20 The Psychology of Dating: Attachment & Personality Types
12:35 Why High-Net-Worth Individuals Use Matchmakers
16:45 Overcoming Fear of Rejection & Past Relationship Trauma
22:15 The Truth About Dating “Checklists”
26:00 How to Naturally Flirt & Build Connection
30:40 Finding Love After Divorce or Loss
36:50 Kate’s Personal Love Story & What She Learned
42:10 How to Work with Kate & Select Date Society
45:30 Final Thoughts & Relationship Advice
💬 What’s your biggest dating challenge? Drop a comment below!
Follow Kate O’Connor & Select Date Society:
🔹 Website: SelectDateSociety.com
🔹 LinkedIn: Kate O’Connor - VIP Matchmaker
🔹 Instagram: @SelectDateSociety
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Facebook: The Bulitts
Website: www.thebulitts.com
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Matchmaking, high-net-worth dating, finding love, dating tips, elite matchmaking, attachment styles, personality types, flirting tips, dating after divorce, overcoming dating fears, relationship coaching, dating advice, Conversations for Couples, Kate O’Connor, Select Date Society, relationship success, dating after loss.
31: Reigniting Relationship Passion with Susan Bratton (00:50:24)
In this steamy episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton for a deep dive into reigniting passion, closing the libido gap, and strengthening long-term relationships through better sex and deeper connection.
Susan, a sexual biohacker, CEO, and bestselling author, shares powerful insights on how couples can maintain a fulfilling sex life, why mismatched libidos are a myth, and how to bring more pleasure into your relationship. From orgasmic techniques and libido hacks to sensory seduction and sex-life bucket lists, this episode is packed with game-changing strategies for couples who want to reignite desire and make love that lasts a lifetime.
🔥 Topics Covered:
Why "mismatched libidos" is a myth
The difference between libido, desire, and arousal
How women’s and men’s sexual operating systems differ
Why foreplay vs. sex is a misleading concept
The role of safety, relaxation & emotional connection in arousal
Practical steps to revive your sex life after months or years of disconnect
Techniques for orgasmic intercourse & pleasure mapping
How small seduction offers can bring back passion
The Sex Life Bucket List and how it transforms relationships
Biohacking for better intimacy: Nitric oxide, GainsWave, and more
✨ Resources Mentioned:
🔗 Orgasmic Intercourse Techniques (Game-changing techniques for deeper pleasure)
🔗 Magic Pill Method (Step-by-step guide for couples to revive their intimacy)
🔗 Better Lover Newsletter (Weekly expert sex tips & techniques)
🔗 Sex Life Bucket List (48 erotic playdate ideas for couples)
🔗 Pumping Guide (How to increase sensitivity & pleasure)
💬 What was your biggest takeaway? Drop a comment below!
Follow Susan Bratton:
🔹 Instagram: @SusanBratton
🔹 Website: BetterLover.com
🔹 YouTube: Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert
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Facebook: The Bulitts
Website: www.thebulitts.com
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30: Turning Tables on The Dad Up Podcast (00:33:21)
In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Andrea and Brian Ward for an insightful discussion on parenting, marriage, and balancing it all. Brian, a Marine Corps veteran and host of The Dad Up Podcast, and Andrea, a dedicated teacher, share their journey of raising two boys, building a strong marriage, and how Brian’s decision to quit drinking reshaped their family.
The couple opens up about how they maintained a strong connection through the busiest years of parenting, their approach to communication and self-care, and why investing in their marriage—including working with a marriage coach—has made all the difference. Whether you’re in the thick of raising kids or navigating the empty nest phase, this episode is packed with wisdom on maintaining a healthy, thriving relationship.
🔗 Topics Discussed:
The importance of being an all-in dad
Brian’s decision to quit drinking for his family
Balancing parenting responsibilities as a team
Communicating effectively while raising kids
The role of self-care in a healthy relationship
Why they work with a marriage coach & how it helps
Navigating the transition to an empty nest
Brian’s journey with The Dad Up Podcast
✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
The Dad Up Podcast: Available on YouTube, Apple, Spotify, iHeart & more
Follow Brian on Instagram: @DadUpPodcast
Email Brian: daduppodcast@gmail.com
🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Meet Julie & David Bulitt
00:30 Welcome Andrea & Brian Ward
02:45 What It Means to Be an All-In Dad
06:30 Brian’s Decision to Quit Drinking for His Family
10:15 Balancing Parenting Responsibilities as a Couple
15:00 The Importance of Scheduling & Communication in Marriage
18:45 Carving Out Time for Self-Care & Personal Space
22:30 Transitioning to the Empty Nest Phase
26:45 The Role of a Marriage Coach in a Healthy Relationship
30:30 How The Dad Up Podcast Started & Its Impact
35:00 Where to Find Brian & Final Thoughts
Follow Conversations for Couples:
Instagram: @TheBulitts
Facebook: The Bulitts
Website: www.thebulitts.com
🎙️ Hosted by Julie & David Bulitt: Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Divorce and Family Lawyer
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