#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh
SamfunnEvery Tuesday, award-winning Dominatrix Eva Oh fearlessly spills the tea on whatever she damn well pleases. Unleash your curiosity and dive into Eva’s world of secrets and stories on sexuality, shame, seduction, money, men, success and even AI companionship. Welcome to the unfiltered adventure of #teakink. Video available for all episodes on YouTube.
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- The Final Episode of #teakink (00:03:30)
After two years, over a hundred episodes, and a million listens - this is the final episode of the #teakink podcast. What began as a voice on a sofa became something much bigger - a space to think out loud, connect across borders, and be in conversation with those of you who listened, shared, and carried it with you.'You Will Please Me' is the next chapter - more intentional, and even more intimate. Eva Oh's new podcast is on the horizon - with deeper focus, more solo episodes, and a continued unfolding of power, presence, and becoming.Thank you for being part of this journey. The exchange isn’t over - it’s only changing shape.
- Latex in the Tropics: Mistress Wei on Singapore’s Kink Scene (00:34:16)
Mistress Wei joins Eva Oh to talk latex in the tropics, sex parties in Singapore, and building a thriving kink career in one of Southeast Asia’s most discreet yet dynamic BDSM scenes. From her first session to public perceptions and regional fetish culture, Wei shares how she’s carved out a space for power, play, and pleasure—with a mask on, of course.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Mistress Wei, a Dominatrix in Singapore(02:20) - From a Random DM to Shadowing a Session(05:00) - Latex Fetishists in Humid Singapore(07:50) - Shibari in Singapore(08:55) - Kink Population in London vs Singapore(10:50) - How to Find Sex Parties in Singapore(13:30) - So Many Achievements Already!(16:50) - Singapore's Public Perception Relations(21:40) - Who Attends Singapore's Sex Parties(24:30) - Bangkok Fetish Ball(25:00) - Singapore, South East Asia's Biggest Kink Community(26:00) - Masks, Anonymity and What it's Like Being Recognised(32:40) - Words of Encouragement from Mistress Wei
- So, You Want to Date a Dominant Woman? (00:11:04)
Dating a dominant woman isn’t about begging to be used - it’s about learning how to meet power with presence. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh unpacks the messy reality of dating as a Domme, the chaos of app culture, and what actually works when approaching a dominant woman. Supported by Chyrpe - the dating app for femdom and female-led relationships - this is essential listening for anyone navigating femdom dynamics with curiosity, confusion, or just too many emojis.Chyrpe: www.chyrpe.com/eva_ohWatch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome to #teakink(00:28) - Introducing Chyrpe: the dating app for femdom and FLRs(01:24) - Why dating a dominant woman isn’t about “doing anything you want”(02:00) - The dating app disaster zone(04:10) - What dominant women experience on mainstream apps(05:30) - “I want to be your slave” & other spammy openers(06:15) - Respect, not performance: what Dommes actually want(07:30) - The cost of desperation: kink bingo and checkbox culture(08:50) - Submission isn’t self-erasure(10:10) - What gets a real response from a Domme?(11:25) – Red flags vs green flags in femdom dating(13:00) - Emotional competence > chaotic desperation(15:10) - Fantasy vs reality: can you meet power with presence?(16:00) - For submissives: curiosity, calm, consistency(16:35) - For doms: vetting is sacred(17:10) - Final word: dominance isn’t something you consume - it’s something you relate to
- Flashback: Sex Work is Damn Hard Work (00:32:42)
How I became a Dominatrix, what the job really involves, and the layered challenges we face: stigma, emotional labor, financial exclusion, and more. It’s the behind-the-scenes look at sex work you won’t find on Netflix.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:15) - The Scope of My Job(01:45) - The Interest in Sex Work(02:40) - The Intricacies and Evolution of My Work Responsibilities(04:50) - What a Receptionist Shielded Me From(09:30) - Why I Do Sex Work Despite the Challenges(11:05) - Dungeon vs Indie(11:50) - Navigating Societal Stigma(12:30) - Marketing and Perceiving Yourself(14:00) - Navigating Space and Community Challenges(15:55) - Interpersonal Session Skills(17:00) - Feeling Safe in My Workplace vs In Public, Workplace Wins(20:05) - Financial Exclusion and Structural Violence in Banking for Sex Workers(25:45) - The Power of Resilience, Community and You(27:43) - My Internship at a Sex Work Organisation(28:30) - Learning About the Backpage Shutdown Impact on Sex Workers(30:00) - The Data for Decriminalisation by Amnesty International vs Puritanism(31:17) - Why I Love My Job
- Sex Work and Stigma in Singapore: A Conversation with Project X (00:35:55)
Vanessa Ho, director of Project X Singapore, joins Eva Oh to unpack the legal, medical, and social realities for sex workers in Singapore. They discuss everything from navigating hostile systems and language barriers to launching a powerful anthology written by sex workers themselves. With 14 years on the frontline, Vanessa sheds light on criminalisation, community, and what real progress could look like.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Vanessa, Director of Project X Singapore(01:25) - How Project X Helps Sex Workers - a lot!(04:30) - Sex Work Legalities in Singapore(06:40) - Accessing Health Services Awkwardly as a Sex Worker(08:58) - Their Book Project - A Singaporean Sex Worker Anthology(12:40) - What We Have Learned in Our 14 Years around the Sex Industry(14:50) - Who is Project X?(15:45) - Singapore's Sex Work Landscape, Throwing OF Creators into Jail(19:50) - Working with Parliament(21:40) - Multi-multi-lingual Outreach Services and Woes(28:33) - The Fight for Legitimacy and Hopes for Singapore(31:45) - Trafficking, Domestic Workers and Singapore's Villainisation of the Other
- Will Charmer: From Christian Cult to Australia’s Top Male Escort (00:46:39)
From tradie to TikTok to top escort—Will Charmer joins Eva Oh to talk about his path into sex work, the emotional and spiritual layers of male escorting, and how being tethered to family, Taoism, and marriage has helped him navigate it all. They talk cult upbringings, male privilege, aging, and what it really takes to make clients feel safe.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Will Charmer, Male Escort(01:30) - Will's First Escorting Job, Kismet!(04:10) - From Tradie to Tik Tok to Escorting(04:40) - Coming from a Christian Cult(09:10) - Empowerment through Escorting(12:25) - Navigating Marriage as an Escort(14:15) - The Emotional Work of Male Escorting(17:25) - Having a Young Family as a Tether(19:50) - Taoism and Navigating Community Carefully(24:15) - Male Privilege in Escorting(25:50) - Becoming Australia's Best Male Escort(28:25) - The Magic and Downsides of Giving Client's a Safer Space(32:30) - The First Thing You Need to be a Male Escort(35:40) - The Advantage of Being Married as an Escort(39:30) - Friends and Family's Response to the Job(42:00) - How Stay Open, in Aging and the Everyday
- What Kink Can Do? (00:09:08)
Kink isn't just about getting off—though that's valid too. In this episode, I trace how kink first pulled me in and why it continues to matter. We explore kink as a pathway to self-awareness, transformation, and power dynamics that reflect society itself. From emotional breakthroughs to dangerous patterns, kink can open the floodgates—sometimes beautifully, sometimes brutally. A short but potent reflection on what kink offers, demands, and reveals.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - What Can Kink Do?(01:15) - My Inkling on Kink(02:15) - Why People Come to Kink(03:05) - Getting Off and Feeling Understood(04:37) - Build New Pathways, Good and Bad(05:20) - Teaching Us About the Range of Who We Can Be(06:12) - Opening the Floodgates(07:10) - Kink, Power Dynamics and Revealing Societal Truths(08:20) - A Recap
- What Changes, What Doesn’t: Audrey Fatale on Femdom Through the Years (00:52:28)
Dominatrix Audrey Fatale invites Eva Oh into her playspace for a conversation spanning 15 years of professional domination. They cover burnout, returning with purpose, and what changes as you age in the sex industry. From Audrey’s gear obsession and heavy bondage practice to navigating perimenopause and the politics of cis-het male doms, this episode is a candid look at the shifting seasons of dominance—and the power in pacing yourself.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(01:09) - Meeting Audrey Fatale in her Playspace(02:42) - 15 Years of Domination, a Burnout and We're Back!(04:00) - The BDSM House Environment vs Indie(07:50) - Pacing for Job Satisfaction(10:00) - Eva and Audrey's Different Focuses(11:50) - Audrey, the Gear Head(13:10) - Time, Experience and Stepping into 'Natural' Dominance(18:00) - The Financial Aspect of Femdom(19:40) - Different Domination 'Seasons', from Baby Domme to Now(27:30) - Claustrophobia meets Heavy Bondage Practice(30:00) - When Eva Bottoms(33:40) - The Politics of Cis-het Male Doms(37:50) - Audrey's Europe Plans(39:10) - Perimenopause, HRT and Self-Advocacy(49:00) - Aging in the Sex Industry
- Mistress Tahlia: Power, "Pegging", and the House That Made Us (00:56:13)
Before Eva Oh entered the scene, Mistress Tahlia was already a seasoned presence at Salon Kitty’s. Eva reconnects with her Senior Mistress to swap stories of hazing rituals, house hierarchy, and the raw intensity of Australia’s most infamous BDSM establishment. From her days at the "Den of Inequity" to the rise of pegging and the economics of erotic labor, Tahlia shares how sex work became her site of power, politics, and transformation.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Becoming Mistress Tahlia(02:55) - Sex Work as a Vehicle for Radicalisation(03:30) - Discovering BDSM(07:30) - Stepping into Power and Salon Kitty's(10:40) - The Den of Inequity(15:00) - Our Different Experiences of Salon Kitty's(19:40) - Hazing Amongst Mistresses(23:30) - Changing of the Guard(25:30) - House vs Independent Work(27:10) - Salon Kitty's Changes and Reunions(29:40) - Becoming Magical Beasts(33:15) - The Accounting Fantasy Role Play(36:00) - Tahlia's First Impressions of Eva at Salon Kitty's(38:25) - Hierarchy at the House(41:50) - The Whorearchy of Erotic Sessions(44:35) - The Emergence of Pegging and the Findom Fallout(49:10) - Online vs Real-time Work(50:35) - Intimate Job Satisfaction(51:10) - Tahlia's English Corporal Punishment Plans(54:30) - Tahlia's Number One Tip
- Sex Work VS Marriage (00:15:05)
Is marriage the pinnacle of success—or just more unpaid labor dressed up in paperwork? In this final Sex Work VS miniseries episode, I get personal about my own marriages and question what we’re really chasing when we romanticize commitment. Sex work gave me the distance to see it differently: the self-absorbed oxytocin highs, the cultural expectations, and the silent costs of being a “good partner.” If you’ve ever second-guessed the path laid out for you, this one’s for you.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Sex Work VS Marriage(02:05) - Paperwork and More Unpaid Labour(03:10) - My Marriages(04:20) - Unpack Marriage as a Measure of Success(08:20) - Sex Work Has Given Me Freedom from the Cycle(11:08) - The Miniseries Recap: Self-absorbed Oxytocin Rides VS Regretting a Life(14:20) - Thank You Sex Work!
- Sex Work VS Relationships: Reciprocation or Remuneration (00:30:38)
What’s the difference between being paid for your emotional labor and giving it away for free? In this episode of the Sex Work VS miniseries, I explore how sex work reshaped my approach to relationships. From unreciprocated efforts with cis-het men to the gratitude that comes with being paid, I reflect love, and raising my standards. We’ll talk about oxytocin, one-sided coaching, the myth of romantic stability—and why financial independence feels far more secure. This isn’t about giving up on intimacy. It’s about knowing your worth, and deciding who (or what) deserves your time.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Sex Work VS Relationships(01:05) - The 'Natural' Progression, Dating to Relationship?(02:15) - What I Would Need from a Relationship(03:40) - The Societal Expectation of Having a Relationship(07:10) - Being Taken for Granted(09:10) - The Advantage of Paid VS Unpaid Emotional and Sexual Labour(10:30) - One-sided Efforts when Engaging with Cis-het Men(13:25) - Improving My Standards, Does it Help or Hinder(15:40) - Getting Paid for the Usual Coaching of Men(16:40) - The Exchange of Money Encourages Gratitude(20:40) - Honing the Art of Relating and the Benefits of Getting Paid for It(23:15) - Relationship Stability is not a Given, your Financial Independence can be(24:50) - Do I Want to Spend My Life on Unworthy Pursuits and People?(25:50) - Falling in Love as a Skill Learned through Sex Work(26:55) - Friendships with Sex Workers as the Gold Standard(27:45) - The Need for Reciprocation(28:55) - What Cis-het Men Could Offer if Not My Gold Standard, Money and Connections
- Sex Work VS Dating (00:20:56)
Dating apps. New relationship energy. Getting paid for your time. In this first episode of the Sex Work VS miniseries, I explore how sex work reshaped my expectations of dating, romance, and emotional labor. From valuing my time to filtering partners like my client applicants, I unpack why I still date—and what I refuse to give away for free.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Sex Work VS Dating(01:20) - A Changed Dating (App) Landscape, but Similar Motivations?(02:50) - The Emotional Benefits of Both(04:50) - How Getting Paid Taught Me About My Value and Gave Me Choice(06:30) - Why I Still Date (for free); Entertainment and Aesthetic(08:42) - How I Keep Dating Relevant in a Frivolous Culture(11:05) - My Dating Application Process(13:55) - The Disadvantage of Unpaid Dating Labour(15:15) - Oxytocin, New Relationship Energy and Infatuation(17:00) - The 'Neatness' of Getting Paid(17:40) - Wasting My Resource and Being Valued(20:00) - A Cis-Het Lens Focus, for now
- New Miniseries: Sex Work VS Dating, Relationships and Marriage (00:02:31)
Welcome to a new miniseries exploring what sex work has taught me about dating, relationships, and marriage. I'm calling it Sex Work VS... Can you guess which is in the lead? Stay tuned.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - A New Miniseries on Sex Work vs Dating, Relationships and Marriage (01:30) - Sex Work Has Taught Me the Pros and Cons
- Flashback: Would a Sex Worker Date You? (00:24:46)
People often ask Eva Oh how her partners “handle” her job — but maybe the better question is: Would a sex worker date you? In this flashback episode of #teakink, Eva explores how sex work can sharpen communication, boundaries, and emotional intelligence — and why those who work in it may have higher standards, not lower ones. This episode sets the stage for an upcoming miniseries on sex work, dating, and marriage.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Would a Sex Worker Date You?(01:00) - Unfortunate Case Studies(05:11) - Sex Work and Elevated Communication Skills(06:30) - Do You Deserve the Empathy?(08:55) - How Sex Work Has Changed Me(14:49) - Understanding Society’s Shortcomings(16:25) - A Better Case Study(18:00) - “I Never Thought I Could Have a Relationship Like This”(19:50) - How and Why Monogamy Was Constructed?(22:14) - Why I’ve Become So Picky, What I Deserve
- Kyron Kruger: Behind the Latex (00:33:55)
In this episode of #teakink, Eva sits down with Kyron Kruger — performer, provocateur, and latex-drenched shapeshifter — to talk evolution, ambition, and the kink of it all. Kyron shares how he got started, what latex means to him, and how he navigates the sex industry as a cis man. They unpack everything from gatekeeping to dealing with trolls, the Eva-Kyron dynamic, and their big creative dreams — including fetish film, Europe, and beyond. This is Kyron Kruger, for now.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - The Origins of Kyron Kruger(03:55) - Latex(05:00) - A Fluid Evolution(10:10) - Challenging the Trolls(11:20) - Plans for Europe(12:50) - Advice on the Hustle(16:40) - Is there space for Gatekeeping(20:15) - Being a Cis-Man in the Sex Industry(23:20) - The Eva-Kyron Dynamic?(25:50) - Fetish Film Dreams and Plans(30:30) - Eva's Asia-Australia Plans(31:30) - A Wrap on Kyron Kruger, for now...
- Megan Prescott - From Child Actor to Sex Work Advocate, Shame, and Liberation (00:51:50)
Megan Prescott joins Eva Oh on #teakink to discuss the complexities of growing up in the public eye, navigating OnlyFans, and confronting internalized shame. She shares her journey from child acting to stripping (badly), how sex work became a financial lifeline, and why society struggles with women owning their sexuality. Megan also breaks down the fight for sex work decriminalization in the UK, her role as Chair of National Ugly Mugs, and the real dangers of the Nordic Model. Plus, the tabloid obsession with nudes, funding her Edinburgh Fringe show, and the unexpected freedom of her autism diagnosis.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Megan Prescott and her Character, Molly(02:00) - The Issues of Child Acting, as a Child Actor(08:00) - How OnlyFans Started Paying the Bills as not a Good Stripper(14:15) - Internalised Shame and How Society Distances Women from Themselves and Their Sexuality(17:30) - The Contradictions of Denying Sexuality as a Valuable Commodity(24:00) - Megan on Becoming the Chair of National Ugly Mugs(28:30) - What the Decriminalisation vs Legalisation of Sex Work Means in the UK(33:40) - The Dangers of the Nordic Model(34:30) - Amnesty's Support of Decriminalisation(37:40) - Nudes, the Tabloids and Funding Her Edinburgh Fringe Show(42:10) - The Liberation in Megan's Autism Diagnosis(43:55) - Sex Work as an Education and of Intrigue, and the Fear and Confusion in Society(49:00) - Marriage as Sex Work(50:05) - Megan's New Podcast
- Aranja - Kink, Death, and Psychedelics Coaching (00:54:35)
Eva Oh welcomes Aranja—kink, power, and psychedelics coach, trauma therapist, and death doula—to #teakink for a deep dive into the intersections of kink, psychedelics, and death. They explore the role of a death doula, the unexpected parallels between kink and mortality, and how slowing down the dying process changes everything. Aranja shares insights on guiding clients through psychedelic experiences, the challenges of kink coaching, and the lack of resources around trauma in these spaces. Plus, a discussion on a potential kinky death retreat and Eva’s first encounter with a dead body.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Aranja, Kink, Power and Psychedelics Coach, Trauma Therapist and Death Doula(05:20) - Discovering the Role of the Death Doula(09:45) - Bringing All Aranja's Roles Together?(11:05) - Can You Combine Kink and Psychedelics?(13:35) - The Similarities Between Kink and Death, Humility and Letting Go(15:45) - The Berlin Death Festival and the Cultural Practices of Death(18:45) - Slow Down the Death Process(21:50) - Eva's First Experience with a Dead Body(24:45) - A Kinky Death Retreat?(26:20) - What is Psychedelics Coaching?(28:30) - The Dangers and Expectations of Psychedelic Clients(32:50) - The Concerns of Kink Coaching Clients(39:30) - Kink, Trauma and Structuring Engagement as a Coach or Dominatrix(45:02) - The Lack of Resources Around Kink and Trauma(46:40) - How Kink is a Container for Sidelined Emotions and Experiences(51:30) - What Aranja Studied to Bring Together These Roles(53:00) - Aranja's Plâns and Eva's Sacrificial Session
- Becoming an AI Companion: Part III - Up in Flames? (00:09:57)
In the third episode of this mini-series, Eva Oh shares how her journey into becoming an AI companion took a dramatic turn—going up in flames, quite literally. She dives into the challenges of building her own AI bot, the unexpected hurdles along the way, and what comes next in this bold experiment. Tune in for the latest chapter of her exploration on #teakink.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - My AI Companion Journey Up in Literal Flames(05:00) - The Challenges of Making My Own AI Bot(08:10) - Next Steps
- Flashback - AI Companion Part II with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher (01:04:17)
Eva Oh meets with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher, to find out more about the potential of her AI Companionship and its overarching effect on our lives. Listen in on a conversation that explores the evolution of human interaction, parallels to the early internet and sex work, chatbot rights, the ‘Interaction Arms Race’ and Åste’s Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test. Eva asks, can designing her AI Companion be done ethically or does that even matter?Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Meeting Åste Amundsen, Interaction Researcher(01:40) - How Åste Found Me(02:40) - How Åste Thinks My Work Parallels to Hers(06:40) - Why AI Companies Are Interested in Me(07:30) - The Evolution of Human Interaction including Parasocial Relationship and How AI Could Manipulate Our Shortcomings(10:30) - Åste's Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test Installation(13:10) - Sex Workers as Interaction Experts(15:00) - The Evolution of Human Dating and it’s Merging with Technology(16:00) - Esther Perel’s Fears for AI Chatbots and Digital Interaction(18:00) - How Could I Design an AI Companion Ethically?(21:40) - Sex Work as Emotional Labour, Designing ‘Friction’ Into AI(24:40) - Sex Work Hobbyists(26:30) - Porn and Fantasy as a First Sexual Experience, AI Companionship as Similar?(27:30) - My One Fantasy(29:45) - Current Attempts at AI Companionship(32:00) - The Relational Bonding and Interaction Arms Race(33:00) - Chatbot Rights(34:00) - Government(34:30) - What Makes a “Good” Interaction?(37:00) - What Sex Work Might Become(37:40) - How Could We Value Ourselves(41:25) - How These Developments Might Evolve Us(42:40) - What Motivates Me to become an AI Companion(43:55) - An Opportunity(46:00) - Åste’s NSFW Chatbot Research(48:00) - The Disturbing and The Violent(50:00) - The Nether, A Play(52:40) - Angela Carter, Benefiting From Our Sexual Capacity(57:40) - The Transactional Nature of Interaction(59:10) - Potential and the Parallels to the Early InternetLinks:Åste Amundsen, http://asteamundsen.com
- Join My Mentorship Patreon - Let’s Build Power Together (00:07:00)
Eva Oh is launching a mentorship platform—one designed for women, queer folk, and the kink community to access guidance, ask unfiltered questions, and build a more empowered future. In this episode, she shares her journey, what’s in store (live Q&As, community chat, one-on-one mentorship, and more), and why creating a safer space away from corporate interests is essential. With lessons from over a decade in domination, burnout, and reinvention, this is about making your path easier, richer, and freer. Join now—let’s change our world.Join my Mentorship Patreon: https://patreon.com/EvaOhWatch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - I’m Starting a Mentorship Platform!(01:11) - My Mentorship Journey(02:50) - Courses?(03:20) - Live Q&A’s, Question Polls, Community Chat(04:15) - One-on-one Tier, Live Events(05:20) - IG Live Ban(05:50) - Join Me/Us, and let’s change our world…
- Bishop Black - On Navigating Their Porn Star Life (00:50:21)
On this episode of #teakink, Eva Oh sits down with performer and artist Bishop Black for a deep dive into their journey—from the organic evolution of their career to the energy, tactility, and chemistry that go into porn work. They talk spontaneity, joy, and navigating the ever-changing landscapes of London and Berlin. Bishop reflects on becoming the representation their younger self longed for, handling criticism and compliments, and balancing creativity with burnout. Plus, what does the future hold? Community, road trips, and maybe even lap dogs.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Bishop Black, Berlin and Vitamin D Drops(02:25) - Navigating Spontaneity, Joy and COVID(04:48) - Bishop's Ideal World, Pain and Eva's Pizza Porn Hopes(09:35) - The Organic Evolution of Bishop's Career(12:35) - What Bishop's Penis Sounds Like(13:20) - Bishop's London and a Changing Berlin(18:25) - Being What 19 Year Old Bishop Wanted to See(23:30) - The Energy, Tactility, Chemistry and Skill Needed in Porn Work(29:50) - Navigating Criticism and Compliments(37:00) - How Bishop Balances Motivation, Burnout, Creativity and Inadequacy(42:10) - What Will We Be Doing in 20 Years - Community, Road Trips and Lap Dogs
- Plastic Surgery, Aging, and the Sci-Fi Future of Beauty (00:31:09)
Beauty tweaks, social media pressure, and the ever-creeping desire to look "young"—Eva Oh unpacks it all in this #teakink Podcast episode. She shares her experiences with Botox, fillers, and surgical consultations (including a BBL consultation that took a wild turn), while reflecting on the way aging is framed in society. From hitting the MILF category to the futuristic possibilities of augmentation, this is a candid take on cosmetic work, self-image, and where it’s all headed.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - My Procedures and Dolly Parton(02:25) - How I Discovered Cosmetic Procedures and Treatments(07:24) - The Creep of Social Media(08:25) - COVID and Noticing My Wrinkles(10:50) - What I Do for My Skin and Trying Fillers(12:40) - Botox(13:15) - My Surgeries(18:10) - A BBL Consultation Goes South and Turns Into...(20:10) - Why Do I Want to Look 'Young'(24:30) - Hitting the MILF Category(26:50) - The Sci Fi Future of Augmentation?(29:40) - Things to Think About Around Plastic Surgery
- David Chambers - Coaching Men, Love, and the Fear of Feeling (01:19:36)
On this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with David Chambers, a coach helping men deepen their capacity for love. They unpack his past in the pick-up artist community, why he initially resisted becoming a coach, and what actually makes a good one. From the parallels between coaching and domination to men’s fears around love and attunement, they explore what holds people back from empathy and connection. Plus, they dive into Vipassana, the patriarchy, universal basic income—and whether aliens might just save us all.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:00:21) - Why David Chambers Helps Men to Love More Deeply(00:01:50) - How Love Has Changed For David Since He Became a Coach(00:06:25) - Why and How David Started to Change His Experience of Life(00:11:00) - Who Asks for David’s Help and Why?(00:12:10) - David’s Own Coaches(00:14:25) - Eva’s Initial Mistrust of Coaches(00:16:40) - David’s Pick Up Artist Coaching and Community(00:22:35) - David Didn’t Want to be a Coach(00:23:20) - What Makes a Good Coach(00:25:40) - A Dominatrix Coaching Circle?(00:27:50) - Managing Client Numbers as a Coach(00:30:20) - Parallels between Dominatrix and Coaches(00:31:25) - The Benefits of Coaching in Groups(00:34:00) - David’s Fear of Expressing Love(00:36:30) - What are Men Afraid of and How to Work with Their Fears(00:41:25) - Men’s Approaches Towards Women and ‘Attunement’(00:53:10) - Eva’s Perspective Building ‘Walking Exercise’ with Her Clients(00:56:40) - Why People Hide from Feeling Empathy(00:59:10) - The Patriarchy, Reparations, Gisèle Pelicot and What Do We Do About It(01:08:00) - Leaning into Challenge, Disagreement and Moving Out of Reaction(01:10:00) - Vipasanna Meditation and Rewriting Our Relationship to Pain(01:14:00) - Universal Basic Income and Greed(01:15:00) - Will Aliens Save Us?!
- Flashback - Interview: My Main BDSM Slave, m (00:40:37)
Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it.m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m(00.35) - The Foot Cam(00.56) - How We Met(02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts(02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me(03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’(05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts(06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’(07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations(08:10) - The Ruler will Rule(08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust(10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality(11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience(12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace(13.30) - Love and Lust(15.00) - m Learning Compassion(15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much(16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like(19.15) - Navigating Expectations(20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other(22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy(27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now(29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future(31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him?(35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice(39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t
- Power Miniseries III: Money and the Dominatrix (00:23:48)
In the final episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the intricate relationship between money and power in domination. From her early survival mindset to financial stability, she reflects on how her understanding of wealth has evolved—and whether the one paying is truly the one in control. Does money dictate power, or is it all about perception? With insights on findom, greed, and the illusions wealth creates, this episode challenges conventional ideas about financial dominance and self-worth.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries III: Money(01:06) - My Relationship to Money Pre-Domination(02:00) - Findom was Not a Category(02:55) - My Evolution from Survival to Wealth(04:20) - What is ‘Real’? Lifestyle vs Professional Domination(06:55) - Does the Person Paying Have the Power?(09:15) - The Power of Perspective(10:50) - How My Understanding of Money Has Changed Over Time(13:10) - Wealth Does Not Correlate to Quality of Personhood(19:20) - Money, Existential Anguish, Greed and Weakness(21:40) - The Miniseries Format Experiment